Love anyway

Devastation comes. It seems people have turned against you. Maybe someone thinks you have turned against them. Maybe none of it is correct. Perhaps it is just misconstrued perspective or an opinion that is not in truth.

Emotions flare up. Bad news comes. Someone dies. Another one gets sick. Someone gets fired. Words are said that are harsh or critical.

What on earth do you do? Loving one another no matter what is critical. Life takes turns. Do not allow your heart to be callous towards anyone.

Much of my life I was verbally and non-verbally abused. I do not know many who have not experienced unhealthy relationships. This I know is your spouse is not perfect and your family is not perfect. Your friends are imperfect. Emotions rise up and words are said that are not always meant. How are you to respond? Will you write someone off because of something they say in the midst of overwhelming feelings? If you do not know someone’s heart, you will do just that.

When anger is high and vision is dim, let a soft answer turn away wrath. Love the person who is unlovely. If they are spewing out hatred at you it’s because they feel that way about themselves.

Give the benefit of the doubt. Think righteous thoughts about them. Love anyway. Even if they choose not to love you in return.

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The Process

Change is a process. We want a silver bullet but it is all about the process. It’s called renewing the mind. It’s not a one time event. You don’t expose lies and vows and change into a different person like magic. You take bite after bite into the lies of who you have thought yourself to be and you let yourself make new decisions as you unfold who God says you have already BECOME. Be patient with you as you let yourself become the brand new you. Be kind to those around you in their process too.

You get to look change in the eye with courage and confidence and kindness and eventually realize your worldview has changed. You have gone through the process of thinking differently – toward yourself and those surrounding you – one decision at a time. Love-d

#Cutawaycomplaints

It is the day to cut away what keeps you from being the very best you that you can be. Complaining is the strongest avenue of derailing you. This is the year to cut away complaints. Join me in cutting away complaining about you and others. Check out this video for details On how to reform you.

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Blessings and PEACE!!

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Sticks and Stones

Do you ever feel like the woman accused by the many? Unfaithful is what they said.

You feel the jabs from sticks intending to slice you to bits. Or perhaps you feel the weight of the stones meant to crush you?

Unaware yet aware.

Undone yet unfinished.

Or could it be you are you the one who carried a stick or threw a stone?

Maybe like me, you have been both?

You do what you can- you listen and wait.

Then, the fog clears. You now see.

Is it too late?

God forgives yet accusations fall like a weight. You know it’s too heavy but you can’t seem to shake-the barrage of guilt thrown your way.

You don’t know the wrong nor the words to say.

Face to face.

Day to day.

You are only responsible for your own actions. Me. Mine. I’m unable to remain under the heavy stain. Face your accuser and reach into the rain.

That being said,

Until soon,

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Your best year yet…

Your time is here and it’s now…

Merry Christmas

Hello there. May you know you are loved. Be not dismayed nor discouraged nor disappointed. If you feel you are not good enough, or that you can’t seem to do things right for those around you or old wounds threaten to remind you of who you no longer are… be encouraged,

The cross is for the imperfect, the misunderstood, the criticized, the dishonored, the unloved and unlovely as well as those that seem to have it all together. We are all in process. So forgive quickly. Do not allow yourself to make fresh vows to protect you in the future. The very thing you want to avoid will end up showing up with a vengeance in your future and then you will start a drama cycle all over again.

Just love and forgive and treat one another with kindness. Remember your way of being kind may be different than someone else’s. I truly believe everyone is doing the best we can do. We all love different because we are all different. Take a deep breath. Then breathe again.

It’s ok. You are ok. You are important. You are significant. You are precious.

Honor is what love looks like and honor is learned over time. If you feel beaten up or run over, it could be the person in front of you feels the same way. Don’t take it personal. Just love. Love looks different on everyone and maybe you just don’t know how to love each other.

Holiday lessons

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PARANOIA ANYONE?

You ever get hit with thoughts that make you crazy? You wonder if it’s you? People around you? You are talking to yourself and answering too? What if it’s not you at all? Check out my short teaching video from my Facebook page –

I discuss the POWER OF THE FEELING OF PARANOIA

I would love to know your thoughts!

PARANOIA – The Power of A Feeling with Donna Reiners

Until soon!!

Donna Reiners – Emotions Coach